The College of Humanities and Social Sciences marked World Social Work Day with a call for self-love as a foundation for healthy relationships. Licensed psychologist, Rabbi Darko, urged students and attendees to prioritize self-acceptance before seeking relationships with others.
‘‘One does not become a better person in a relationship until you learn to love and accept who you are. Developing a strong sense of self-acceptance and love is essential before starting a relationship.
This entails appreciating yourself without conditions, recognizing your talents and admitting your shortcomings.’’ Head of the Department of Social Work and Sociology, Professor Esmeranda Manful, highlighted the importance of social work in promoting well-being.
“Promoting well-being, resolving social concerns and fighting for justice while preserving fundamental principles like services, social fairness and human dignity make social work incredibly valuable.…………………Patron for Sociology, Professor Kwadwo Duah, speaking on the theme, “Strengthening Intergenerational Solidarity for Enduring Well-being,” emphasized the need for strong relationships across generations to ensure inclusive societal development.
“Urbanization, economic pressure causes conflict between the elderly and youth highlighting alleged strain of caring for elderly populations, which causes animosity and strife. The role of social workers becomes crucial such that public education, cultural diversity and advocacy are needed,” he said.
Rabbi also advised students to focus on their education before pursuing romantic relationships. He cautioned against rushing into commitments without assessing key traits such as temperament and values.
He warned that unhealthy relationships could lead to distractions, emotional distress, and loss of focus. “Ladies should desist from demanding too much from guys as the consequences can be deadly.
Inform your parents or your church leaders about your partner and avoiding several questions to avoid raising doubts that will lead to making a wrong decision.’’ He identified certain behaviors, including overdependence and premarital sex, as risks to personal well-being.
According to him, toxic relationships often result in misplaced priorities, breakups, jealousy, and time wasted on unfulfilling partnerships.To build strong relationships, he encouraged self-care, self-acceptance, and positive self-regard.
He stressed the need for individuals to embrace their worth, practice kindness toward themselves, and maintain a healthy balance in their personal and academic lives.